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At What Age Can a Child Refuse Visitation in Texas?


| Chris Schmiedeke | ,

One of the most common questions parents ask during custody disputes is, “At what age can my child refuse visitation?” In Texas, this issue isn’t governed by a specific law or rule, making it a complex and often emotional matter. Here’s what you need to know about a child’s refusal to visit a parent, and how it is handled under Texas law.

No Set Age for Refusal

In Texas, there is no legal age at which a child can outright refuse to participate in court-ordered visitation. Unlike some other states, Texas does not have a law that specifies when a child’s wishes can override a court’s custody or visitation orders. Instead, decisions about visitation are made based on what the court believes is in the best interest of the child, and this applies throughout the child’s life until they reach adulthood.

A Case-by-Case Basis

Because there are no set rules, the court looks at each case individually. The circumstances behind a child’s refusal to visit one parent are always taken into account, but the ultimate decision lies with the court. Factors such as the child’s age, maturity level, and the reasons for their refusal are all important in these situations.

If a child is expressing serious concerns, like fear of harm or mistreatment, the court will investigate those claims and make appropriate changes to the custody or visitation arrangements if necessary.

Older Children and Special Circumstances

While young children do not generally have the ability to decide whether or not to visit a parent, older children may have more influence in certain circumstances. Texas courts may consider the preferences of older children, especially teenagers, but this does not mean they can unilaterally refuse to follow a court order.

If an older child has strong reasons for refusing visitation—such as emotional distress or specific family dynamics—the court may take their wishes into account when reviewing visitation arrangements. However, these cases are still subject to judicial review, and a child’s preference is not the sole deciding factor.

The Role of the Court and Attorneys

In situations where a child is refusing visitation, it’s essential to work with an attorney who can help you understand your rights and obligations. If you believe that your child’s refusal is based on valid concerns, you may need to petition the court to modify the custody or visitation order. On the other hand, if you are the parent who is being denied visitation, an attorney can help you navigate the legal steps to enforce your rights.

It’s important to note that both parents are required to comply with court-ordered visitation, and a child’s refusal does not absolve a parent of their obligation to facilitate visits unless the court orders otherwise.

Final Thoughts

In Texas, there is no specific age at which a child can refuse visitation, and each case is judged on its own merits. If you’re dealing with a situation where your child is resisting visitation, it’s best to consult with a family law attorney who can provide guidance and help protect your child’s best interests.

Navigating these situations can be difficult, but working with an attorney can help ensure that the proper steps are taken to address the issue in a way that prioritizes your child’s well-being. If you have questions or concerns about visitation, reach out to a family law professional today.


Chris Schmiedeke

OWNER & ATTORNEY

I was born in Dallas and spent the majority of my life here. I moved to Denver in the middle of the first grade and moved back to Plano in the middle of the eleventh grade. I graduated from Plano Senior High in 1984 and then attended Richland College and the University of North Texas where a received a Bachelor of Business Administration. From there I attended the Texas Tech University School of Law and was licensed to practice law in May of 1993. 

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