December 2024 Texas Standard Possession Order | Holiday Break!

Happy holidays, everyone! As I write this, it’s Thanksgiving Day—so let me start by wishing you a joyful Thanksgiving and a festive holiday season ahead. With Christmas just around the corner, it’s time to discuss how custody schedules shape up under the Texas Standard Possession Order (SPO) for December 2024.

This post is designed to help families under the Texas SPO (for parents living within 100 miles of each other) navigate their schedules, so everyone can plan for a smooth and joyful holiday season.

December 2024 Custody Breakdown

Regular Weekdays and Weekends

• Thursdays:
  Non-custodial parents will have possession on December 5, 12, and 19. However, the last Thursday of the month (December 26) is absorbed into the holiday schedule.
• Weekends:
  • The first Friday (December 6) belongs to the non-custodial parent.
  • The second Friday (December 13) is with the custodial parent.
  • For the third Friday (December 20), even though it technically falls on the non-custodial parent’s weekend, the holiday schedule takes precedence.

Holiday Possession Schedule

Holidays in December override regular Thursdays and weekends. Here’s how it works:

• Non-Custodial Parent:
  Begins holiday possession when the children are dismissed from school (likely December 20) and continues through December 28 at noon.
• Custodial Parent:
  Takes over from December 28 at noon through the end of the holiday break, which lasts until school resumes (likely around January 6).

A Note on January

The holiday schedule extends into the first week of January, meaning the first Friday of January will also be absorbed into the custodial parent’s holiday time.

Tips for a Peaceful Holiday Season

Holidays can be challenging when navigating co-parenting dynamics, but with a little understanding and planning, they can also be a time of joy for everyone involved:

1. Communicate Early: If there’s any uncertainty about when the kids get out of school or resume classes, clarify these details early to avoid confusion.
2. Be Flexible: Sometimes, life throws curveballs. Be willing to adjust and accommodate as needed for the children’s best interests.
3. Focus on the Kids: Remember, this time is about creating special memories for your children. Keep the focus on their happiness and well-being.

Wishing You the Best

I hope this breakdown makes your December a little easier to plan. No matter your custody arrangement, I hope you and your children enjoy a festive, love-filled holiday season. If tensions arise with co-parents, try to work through them constructively—your kids will benefit from the harmony.

Happy holidays, and I’ll see you in the new year! 🎄✨