5 Crucial Things You Must Know Before Filing for Divorce

Hi, I’m Chris from Divorce Simplified. Today, I want to discuss five crucial factors you need to consider before filing for divorce. These considerations can help you navigate the process more smoothly and avoid unnecessary complications.

1. Have You Explored All Avenues for Reconciliation?

It might seem odd for a divorce attorney to suggest this, but it’s essential to explore all possible ways to reconcile before deciding to file for divorce. Filing for divorce is a significant and often costly step. If there’s any chance of reconciliation, it’s best to explore those avenues first. Sometimes, the reality of a divorce filing can prompt a genuine attempt at reconciliation from your spouse. Addressing these possibilities beforehand ensures that you are making the right decision for yourself.

2. What Are Your Priorities and Non-Negotiables?

Understanding your priorities and non-negotiables is critical. You need a clear idea of what you want to achieve with your divorce. Since you will be transitioning to living in separate households, identify what aspects are deal-breakers for you and which ones you are willing to negotiate. Write down your non-negotiables on one side and negotiables on the other. This list will be invaluable when you consult with your attorney and help establish a strategic approach for your divorce proceedings.

3. How Will This Impact My Children?

If you have children, their well-being is a top priority. Consider how the divorce will affect them, especially since they will be splitting time between two households. Their ages matter—whether they are teenagers, school-aged children, or toddlers. Think about the psychological impact and whether involving a therapist or school counselor might help them through the transition. It’s best to have a plan in place to support them emotionally once the divorce process begins.

4. Are You Prepared for the Financial Aspects?

Divorce has significant financial implications. Beyond attorney fees, you need to consider the division of marital assets and whether you can sustain yourself financially. Create a budget to outline your income and expenses and determine if you can afford living independently. If you anticipate needing to separate from your spouse during the divorce process, factor in the costs of maintaining two households. If your combined incomes cannot support two separate households, you may need to delay filing until you are financially prepared.

5. What Does Your Support System Look Like?

A strong support system is vital during a divorce. Identify family and friends who can offer emotional support and, if necessary, temporary housing. Knowing who you can rely on will help you cope with the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce. If your support system is out of state, consider how this will affect your ability to visit or stay with them, especially if you have children. A robust support network can make a significant difference in managing the stress and complexities of divorce.

Final Thoughts

Consider these five factors carefully and map out a plan of action. Once you have a clear strategy, you can begin the process of filing for divorce with confidence. Setting an appointment with an attorney to discuss these points can also help ensure you are fully prepared. By addressing these considerations, you’ll be better equipped to handle the emotional and logistical aspects of divorce.

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